
Meditate Anywhere Anytime
We have learned to meditate on the dance floor.
We regularly notice moments of open heartedness. We can dance
keenly aware without any ego commentary for several seconds,
perhaps even entire minutes at a time. This is all good!
The next step is to bring this practice into
the rest of our lives. This is the bridge between
dance and life. Better to meet all of life fully,
cheerfully and productively than to only live
for the weekend.
The actual instructions for meditating during
daily life are no different from the instructions
for meditating while dancing. We notice moments
of freshness, and we let them continue for as
long as they continue. The main challenge is
to remember to notice!
Any moment of contact with basic goodness is
a moment of meditation.
All other moments are not meditation. We are
sleep walking, wandering in subconscious gossip.
Being distracted from basic goodness ruins everything.
The goodness of our life is wasted moment by moment.
It doesn't have to be this way!
Any moment of wakefulness no matter how brief
is real contact with the awakened state
of our enlightened nature. They are mini
moments of enlightenment. One by one they
dissolve our ego and confusion.
Meditate in short sessions, repeated many times.
When we notice a moment of freshness, it doesn't
help to deliberately try to extend it. Trying to
extend a moment of freshness isn't really freshness.
So the instruction is to notice many moments
of freshness, one after another. If they happen
to continue, fine. It not, fine too! There are
plenty more on the way.
Do not fall into the trap of judging your meditation.
When you realize that you have been wandering in
confusion just return to openness and be happy
to be awake again and again.
Meditate in Your Living Room
Pop a cd in the stereo. See if you can
get a groove on! Dance for as long as the
freshness lasts, then stop.
Meditate in Your Bedroom
Meditation is not about trying to achieve
a higher state. It is about gently letting
go of obsession, waking up to the moment
and relaxing into natural open awareness.
There is nothing higher to achieve than
the spontaneous perfection of our natural
state just exactly the way it is right now.
This is called "resting meditation". Resting
in natural wakefulness without any manipulation
or correction of our state of mind.
Sit upright on a pillow, cushion or chair with your
eyes open. Be aware of your environment and how you feel.
Pay gentle attention to your out breath. At the
end of the out breath you may notice a moment
of emptiness or open heartedness, a gap in ego's
commentary. Just relax during the in breath.
If you find yourself lost in thought, think
"thinking" to yourself and come back
to the awareness of the out breath.
Do this again and again.
Do not attempt to suppress your thoughts!
Trying to stamp out thoughts is just another
manipulative fixation and will not work.
"I must stop thinking" is... a thought!
One thought is fighting another rather
than resting in natural awareness.
Recognize that thoughts are simply thoughts!
Stare right at them and they will dissolve into
a moment of fresh unfixated awareness.
This moment of recognition is instantaneous
and effortless, and usually quite brief.
Moments of fresh awareness will alternate
with periods of being distracted by thoughts.
Do not deliberately try to extend the moments
of openness. As soon as you notice yourself
lost in thought recognize freshness. Do this
again and again, alternating between the two
states many times.
Sometimes a moment of open awareness will continue
on for a while by itself with no effort on our part.
When this happens there is no need to pay
attention to the breath as a specific focus.
Just hang out in thoughtfree awareness for
as long as this lasts. Open up and rest loose.
It is quite pleasant and not a big deal.
After a while, get up and do something else.
No need for long grueling sessions. Better to have
several short sessions throughout the day.
Here is a more detailed
meditation instruction page by Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche.
Meditation Study
Meditation and study compliment each other!
The more we understand, the more we can connect
with real wakefulness. The more open our state of mind,
the more we can understand.
I highly recommend reading several pages of
Carefree Dignity
every day. It is one of the best meditation texts
anywhere, readable and profound.
Meet a Meditation Master
Carefree Dignity
is a collection of talks given by
Tsoknyi Rinpoche to beginning meditators.
If you connect with his book you may wish
to connect with Tsoknyi Rinpoche
and his brother Mingyur Rinpoche in person.
Anyone is welcome to attend one of their week long
"Introduction to the Nature of Mind" retreats.
It is one thing to read about it but quite another
to have the enlightened nature of your
own mind directly pointed out to you by a
realized meditation teacher in person.
This can lead to complete confidence
in our meditation practice.
Here is their
current retreat schedule.
Meditate Right Now
Wherever you are and whatever you are doing,
the best time to meditate is always right now :-)
The main challenge is to remember to recognize
freshness. Make a commitment to recognize
as often as possible. This commitment is
the essence of the spiritual path.
If you keep this commitment you will become
enlightened and shine like a beacon of
sanity in this world of confusion and
suffering.
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